So often we don’t know when we hurt people with our words.  Finding ways to minimize or eliminate harsh words is key.     We can’t take back our words.  Hence the importance of being very careful regarding the words that come out of my mouth.  In the heat of the moment, I am not always good at choosing my words.  I have made enough mistakes that I am becoming good at hearing my errors, now I am working at eliminating those moments. Being aware of our words is the first big step in minimizing the issue.  When tensions escalate…