As we prepare for the holidays I take a deep breath and remember it is a special time to spread love, make memories, and be thankful.  I have already started to prepare myself for the normal stress of the season.  Understanding that things will come up, everything will not be perfect, and yet we can still enjoy the reason for the season.  I have come to realize that our purpose can be overshadowed by the quest to over-schedule our lives.  Looking back, I have learned to ask our family about their favorite moments.  Asking what parts are special and…