I was reminded today of the importance of being tactful.  There are so many ways to say or do the same thing and we have a choice on how we address every situation. While living in my current home, I have been approached three times with issues.  Each time the issue was legitimate and each time was handled very differently.  I would like to say that I have never been at the center of an issue, but many times I have been at fault without realizing it.   The first time was shortly after I moved in, my yappy yet incredible…