When I start questioning what others are doing around me, I look inward with self-reflection.  Am I participating in the things that I am questioning in my mind?  Are my actions and words congruent with my values? I look to avoid carrying around anger and immediately replace it with compassion.  When I step back and evaluate with love, I become more understanding and regain my inner peace. Disappointment might show up for a moment, but I quickly move to encouragement.   The situation might not be pleasant, but through prayer, I am guided back on path.  I have to listen…