Every year during the holiday season, I like to remind myself that not everybody shares the same expectations regarding the holidays and traditions, particularly when it comes to what makes us comfortable.  Thinking about those who attend, I ask myself what might make the holiday more joyful for them and their families. Each year brings change to our lives, and aging relatives who may not wish to venture out during the holidays.  The passing of friends and relatives, new marriages, extended family, and young children enjoying the celebration all change the dynamics of our traditions.  Most years, my mother or…