As a parent, teacher, coach, friend, etc., staying focused and alert to the things around me is something I work on daily.   When I find myself mentally wandering from my present situation I quickly evaluate two things.  First, is it my responsibility to be mentally present?  Second, do I want to be mentally present?  Both of those questions quickly direct me back on course as to how I am going to respond to losing my focus.  A quick prayer then helps me follow my intended path.  Some time ago I remember asking my daughter how was practice and this was…