When you work in direct or network marketing a topic of conversation often discussed is fear.  Walking through your fear.  Not holding back waiting for something else, but going after whatever it is that is making you nervous or apprehensive.

It is important to understand that fear changes our behavior.  Often fear takes over and prevents us from taking the next step in our lives.  In some cases, fear is welcomed and healthy and in other cases, it holds us back. 

Keeping our fears in perspective is important.  A healthy amount of fear prevents us from doing some not-so-smart things and often will keep us out of danger. 

The girls and I took a trip to Vermont over spring break to visit some friends and also to spend some time on the mountains snowboarding.  This particular year there was not much snow and a bit too much green grass showing on those narrow mountains for my level of expertise.  I found myself questioning whether or not I had the skill to navigate the terrain.  I felt fear sinking in for the first time on the slopes.  This fear was preventing me from enjoying the full experience, but it also was a signal to me that I was taking a big risk physically.  I allowed the fear to stop me from taking that last run and preventing a potential disaster.

When fear sneaks into my thinking, I quickly say a prayer and give the fear to God.  I want a healthy amount of fear, but want to avoid any paralysis.  Once I have given the fear to God, I find it much easier to navigate my intended path. 

I see fears in my children and pray that they will be able to fight their fears, too.  One of my children is not too fond of needles.  I am not sure where she learned that fear; but truthfully her father was not fond of them either.  She carries out the routine flu shot and blood work, but not without anxiety. 

Recently she was challenged by the need for a cortisone shot.  Her feet have given her excruciating pain for the past two years and the doctor gave her a choice to help reduce the pain, but one choice required a needle and some discomfort.

The doctor gave us a moment alone to make the decision.  I could see the anxiety and fear escalating.  I asked her if she thought the pain she would endure for a few minutes would be worse than the pain she had been going through for the past two years.  Her answer was no.  I then asked her if she was going to let the needle prevent her from participating in all the athletic activities that she loves.  Again, she said no.  I then said,  “I think your decision has been made.   Prayer will get you through it.”

The doctor was rather shocked at her tolerance for the pain.  I, on the other hand, was not surprised!  I knew who “had her back” and that she would be blessed with a good experience.  The shot was over before she realized and she was very grateful! 

For me, fighting fear is always a challenge.  Writing this blog is way out of my comfort zone.  One of the things I cherish is my privacy.  Exposing myself to anyone who reads this blog is totally out of my comfort zone.

I am a work in progress regarding walking through the fear of disclosing personal information.  I rely on prayer as my guide and God as my protector.    

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