With all the last-minute holiday details, I am frequently reminded that tolerance is a valuable tool.  I learned at a very young age that worrying about having everything perfect is exhausting and rarely comes to fruition.   As a child, I would look around and see all the chaos leading up to a celebration.  The event itself always seemed to go flawlessly, but the preparation appeared to be grueling.  I promised myself that when it was time for me to host celebrations I would make preparation tolerable or maybe even fun for all those involved!   One of the things most…