I have found that grace is a valuable component of my “toolbox.” When shown grace, it allows one to learn from mistakes, it helps one to get through tough times, and it is a cushion for when one acts out of character. When one gives grace, it provides someone an opportunity to succeed. I am fully aware that at any moment it might be me who needs someone to show me grace. My late husband showed me grace and it was one of my most memorable moments in terms of the simplicity of the action and the potential of disaster…