In order to focus on what is most important, I believe it is crucial to understand our weaknesses.  When we are aware of our weaknesses we are better able to manage and control our actions.  As we gain an understanding of our weaknesses our strengths begin to blossom.  My list of weaknesses is pretty extensive, but the ones I work on the most are my quick temper, my voice tone, and my ability to clear my mind and focus on Jesus. To better focus we have to be aware of our weaknesses and admit that they exist.  That does not…

What matters to me is investing in others, myself, and my faith. Earlier this week my daughter asked me if I had a favorite motivational speaker or a favorite speech that was inspiring.  I quickly replied, yes!  I remembered the speech perfectly, but I had to do a Google search for the name of the speaker.  This motivational speaker was at the top of the search, Father Greg Boyle, “I was taught everything of value by gang members.”   If you have not yet listened to the speech, it will take 5 minutes of your time.  This speech embodies the true…

Sharing is more complex than meets the eye.  Often when we think of sharing worry sets in and fear becomes immobilizing.  We allow worry and fear to overpower the joys of sharing.  Why is learning to share as a child so important?  Because every day we make decisions based on our willingness to share.  Our daily decisions include sharing things, information, time, assistance, conversation, space, feelings and so much more.    There are times when I think I am forthcoming about sharing information with others.  I give my time and assistance but am I giving with my heart?  Sharing what is…

Unity is what we hope to achieve, but are we doing anything to promote unity, or are we talking about unity without action? How does one promote unity?  What can I do to support the efforts of unity among all people?  What is it that hinders our ability to be unified?  With all the talk of unification, I find myself taking a deep personal evaluation.  I am questioning how I react to different circumstances and looking at ways to improve. Tensions are high among many of us.  It is a time of uncertainty and major changes.  In order to have…