I found myself reflecting this week on how people choose to live their lives and how that reflects back on those who connect with them in some way.  On one hand, I was reflecting on all the joy that can develop from those who spread kindness and love.  I was also reflecting on situations where kindness was a missing ingredient in the puzzle.  I was picturing all those who benefit from authentic, kind experiences and all that is lost when kindness is missing.  I often wonder why someone would take the time and energy to be toxic when kindness and…