One of the most valuable questions I have learned to ask myself before I respond to a situation is, how can I be helpful?  When I start from this perspective I am able to address any issue with compassion.   That doesn’t mean that I get involved in all interactions.   Sometimes the most compassionate thing I can do is pray and walk away.  Silent prayers asking Jesus to guide the person or situation.   Not contributing to frustration, anger, fighting or dangerous situations might be the best decision.  Being helpful might require suggesting support for someone or maybe lending a listening…