I have observed many examples of people dealing with their “stuff” productively and intentionally. 

We all have “stuff.”  Numerous people might have the same issue at hand, but each individual is unique.  Differences might include age, timing, other complications or circumstances, etc.  It is how we deal with our “stuff” that will make a difference in the long run.  Being intentional regarding how you deal with your “stuff” is very powerful.   

For me, being intentional is imperative.  I focus on the present and the future.  Seldom do I allow myself time to dwell on the past.  Although thinking back on “good times” can be fun, it can also take us away from reality if we stay there too long. 

Being intentional for me means seeking out my intended path.  I continually pray that when I am off course God will guide me back on track.  When I do take time to look back at my life I see an elaborate puzzle that was pieced together event by event.  Some events were amazing, others not so great.  The not-so-great events always pushed me to reach the amazing times, all orchestrated together perfectly.  Being aware and intentionally following my intended path has opened many doors for me.

Seeing others be intentional is both humbling and inspiring.  One person who is a powerful example of being intentional is my boss.  He is a person who has a listening ear.  He is there for people when they need someone to talk to and when they need lifting.  He knows how to redirect people’s thoughts to be more constructive. 

My boss is also very intentional regarding himself.  Approximately 15 years ago he lost his ability to walk without the use of a cane, walker, or chair.  Beyond that, there have been many other unusual issues that have made life challenging for him.  Daily, I watch him intentionally challenge himself to go beyond what most people would think possible. 

It is doing the “impossible” that makes everything my boss does every day possible.  It is all intentional and it is all inspiring.

Recently I came across a video clip of Mandy Harvey singing “Try” at America’s Got Talent (2017).  It was one of those clips that I could not get off my mind.  She lost her hearing very suddenly at age 18.  She said something that I will never forget, “After I lost my hearing I gave up, but I want to do more with my life than just give up.” 

“Try”
by Mandy Harvey 

I don’t feel the way I used to.
The sky is grey much more than it is blue.
But I know one day I’ll get through
and I’ll take my place again.
If I would try.
If I would try.
There is no one for me to blame.
Cause I know the only thing in my way…
Is me.
I don’t live the way I want to.
That whole picture never came into view.
But I am tired of getting used to the day.
So I will try.
So I will try.
If I would try.
If I would try.

Mandy Harvey writes beautiful lyrics and has a great voice and stage presence, but what impresses me most is how intentionally she lives her life. 

Being intentional takes effort, thought, patience, and prayer.  You have to choose to be intentional.   

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