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Living Within Our Means. Blog #113.

My father always taught my siblings and me to live within our means.  Growing up we never bought anything or went anywhere unless we had the money in the bank to pay the bill.  All credit card expenditures were to be paid off monthly and paying the mortgage off quickly was a high priority.  My parents grew up during the Depression.  Like so many, they knew firsthand what it was like to lose everything their family worked for and built.  It was important for them as they rebuilt their lives to have security.  I am happy that I was able…

What Is It That You See? Blog #112.

What is it that I see around me?  Do I see beauty or do I see problems?  Am I observant of those in need and able to serve others?  When I see people in need do I reach out a helping hand?  Do I take the time to bless them with love?  What is it that I see when I go out in the world every day? Am I aware of those around me or is it all about me?    To one degree or another, all of us have issues to deal with daily.  I am aware of my issues…

Refocusing Rest. Blog #111.

We all need rest in our lives.  The length and type of rest we need may be different for all, but the fact remains that rest is our time to rejuvenate.  Our bodies tell us when rest is needed, the question is whether or not we listen.  I learned the hard way that I must set boundaries for myself, particularly when it comes to rest.  It became clear to me that I need a minimum of 5 hours of sleep to function at a level that I desire.  That would be the minimum hours of rest, of course, I always…

Understanding Grace. Blog #110.

I have found that grace is a valuable component of my “toolbox.”  When shown grace, it allows one to learn from mistakes, it helps one to get through tough times, and it is a cushion for when one acts out of character.  When one gives grace, it provides someone an opportunity to succeed.  I am fully aware that at any moment it might be me who needs someone to show me grace.  My late husband showed me grace and it was one of my most memorable moments in terms of the simplicity of the action and the potential of disaster…