What some might view as a negative transition, I choose to look at as an opportunity. I have always had faith that when one door closes another one will open with more opportunity than the last.   Through numerous job changes and company closings, I am fortunate, in hindsight, to see how each roadblock became an important part of my journey.  My transitions did not always result in a higher salary or higher levels of management, but always a better fit for my lifestyle at that time.   There are moments when I get discouraged during transitions in my life. I quickly…

I was reminded this past weekend of both the importance of community and the effects of lack of community. All around me, there were signs of how valuable the right community can be for people. Signs of appreciation regarding the community, signs of helpfulness within the community, and signs of togetherness throughout the community. Not only did I feel a sense of community, but others were talking and writing about it also. It was a week filled with people observing the strength of the community, the benefits, and the disappointments regarding the lack of community. As I walk through the…

Appreciation, when used appropriately, is a gift.  It is something we can give that costs nothing but our personal awareness.  It means that we are aware of what is going on around us and within us.  It means we are grateful for the positive influences in our lives.  Appreciation of others is something my parents instilled in me from the beginning of their teachings. Being aware of the feelings and opinions of others has always been a high priority for my parents, it is a high priority for me, and hopefully for my children. Making others feel important and special…

I try to surround myself with people who follow through with what they say they will do; people who keep their word.   “Let’s get together this summer,” is one of those catchphrases that make me smile.  When I hear myself speak those words I make a mental note that I best put something on our calendar regarding my suggestion.  I find it refreshing when someone follows through with their intention; I also find it a bit out of the norm. Following through on your word shows commitment and dedication.  Being true to your word is important in every aspect…