We all worry.  Some of us worry about finances, family, work, health, friends, etc.  Worry can lead us to strive to become more productive but it also can lead us to destruction.  Worrying about being late might motivate someone to keep better track of time.  It might encourage someone to shift into high gear and get ready more quickly.  These are examples of how worrying might make someone more productive.  However, worry becomes an obstacle when it prevents us from enjoying our lives.  During high school, I taught swim lessons to people of all ages.   One particular woman came in…

When you work in direct or network marketing a topic of conversation often discussed is fear.  Walking through your fear.  Not holding back waiting for something else, but going after whatever it is that is making you nervous or apprehensive. It is important to understand that fear changes our behavior.  Often fear takes over and prevents us from taking the next step in our lives.  In some cases, fear is welcomed and healthy and in other cases, it holds us back.  Keeping our fears in perspective is important.  A healthy amount of fear prevents us from doing some not-so…

As a parent, teacher, coach, friend, etc., staying focused and alert to the things around me is something I work on daily.   When I find myself mentally wandering from my present situation I quickly evaluate two things.  First, is it my responsibility to be mentally present?  Second, do I want to be mentally present?  Both of those questions quickly direct me back on course as to how I am going to respond to losing my focus.  A quick prayer then helps me follow my intended path.  Some time ago I remember asking my daughter how was practice and this was…

I have observed many examples of people dealing with their “stuff” productively and intentionally.  We all have “stuff.”  Numerous people might have the same issue at hand, but each individual is unique.  Differences might include age, timing, other complications or circumstances, etc.  It is how we deal with our “stuff” that will make a difference in the long run.  Being intentional regarding how you deal with your “stuff” is very powerful.    For me, being intentional is imperative.  I focus on the present and the future.  Seldom do I allow myself time to dwell on the past.  Although thinking back on…