At various times in my life, I have encountered people who tell me they are not allowed to show feelings, they don’t know how to show feelings or they believe they can’t show their feelings, particularly when it comes to love.  Maybe when it comes to love, the issue is not simply based on feeling, but on how one defines love.  One can show love in every aspect of life.  Love can be tough love, gentle love, endearing love, romantic love, caring love, protective love, etc.  It can also be shown by simply being alert and aware of…