I will be honest, my definition of love 10 years ago was very narrow.  For me, love was a term used when in the company of family and friends.  I have always had the ability to spread love among those close to me, but my life changed when I was able to genuinely feel love for all.

After reading the book Miracles Every Day I realized that I had been living life only appreciating love through my circle of influence (Zagrans, 2010).  For me, it was Dr. Issam Nemeh who simplified love and made me realize our purpose is to love and to serve. 

Dr. Nemeh talked about his love for all being equal.  That he is to care for his immediate family, but his love is equal for all.  That statement took me some time to digest. 

Can people really love all equally?  Can I love equally?  I had some doubt that I could love a stranger equally to my family.  Admittedly I also wondered how I could love someone whose beliefs, actions, or words are contradictory to mine. 

However, if having love in my heart for all would move me closer to Jesus, I was up for the challenge.  First, I had to redefine my definition of love.  I altered my thoughts from love and passion to love and kindness. 

I care for and nurture my family, but my heart is now open to love all.  I began to look at things differently.  Of course, I have always cared for others and served others, but my heart was not open with love for all.  There is a difference.

When I feel judgment creep into my mind, I refocus on love.  When I find my temper escalating, I step back and attempt to look at the situation with kindness.  I remind myself that we are all equals, I refocus with a smile, and love starts to surface.

Once I opened my heart to love equally I found it easier to respect that people have different opinions and values.  I may not agree with the opinions and values, but I am respectful.      

I knew I had succeeded at opening my heart to all when I had no negative feelings or thoughts regarding any attacks on my family.  I am able to look at a situation and what occurred and still have a love for the people involved.  Often I can see why certain things took place and understand the event is separate from the love for the person. 

Redefining love was a turning point in my life. Broadening my definition of love has enabled me to gain a sense of inner peace and strength.  Expanding my definition of love has made me less judgmental and more respectful.  Learning how to live life loving others has been invaluable to my journey.    

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