Appreciation, when used appropriately, is a gift.  It is something we can give that costs nothing but our personal awareness.  It means that we are aware of what is going on around us and within us.  It means we are grateful for the positive influences in our lives.  Appreciation of others is something my parents instilled in me from the beginning of their teachings. Being aware of the feelings and opinions of others has always been a high priority for my parents, it is a high priority for me, and hopefully for my children. Making others feel important and special…

I try to surround myself with people who follow through with what they say they will do; people who keep their word.   “Let’s get together this summer,” is one of those catchphrases that make me smile.  When I hear myself speak those words I make a mental note that I best put something on our calendar regarding my suggestion.  I find it refreshing when someone follows through with their intention; I also find it a bit out of the norm. Following through on your word shows commitment and dedication.  Being true to your word is important in every aspect…

There are so many things that we want to accomplish each day, why sweat the small stuff?   When it comes to raising children, I often hear people say, “You have to pick your battles.”  I tend to agree with choosing to focus on the things you feel are most important.  Allowing some of the smaller less important things to go and focusing on the more important issues at hand.  However, it is important to make sure you focus on some of the issues.  Picking your battles does require you to choose items to focus on!   For me, when we lived…

Honesty is a very tricky thing.  On the one hand, we want to be honest with others and on the other hand, sometimes honesty can be very hurtful. Honesty is important and should be heartfelt, taking into consideration how we would feel being told the same information by someone else.  One of the most crucial points is how honesty is delivered. Being honest to a fault can be tough on friendships. It can be hurtful, ugly, and yet sometimes necessary.  It gets difficult when there is a fine line between being honest, not saying anything, and lying.  Sometimes these are…