We are quickly approaching a day that for many people is filled with expectations.  Some of our expectations are realistic and some are not so realistic.  Although I have high expectations for myself, I work hard at not forcing those expectations on others.  It is not that I set the bar low for others; but when I don’t have preconceived expectations, I find myself grateful and able to enjoy the moment. Clearly, there are commitments, job requirements, etc, where a level of expectation is necessary.  However, I am writing about daily preconceived expectations.    My expectations of my husband were…