There are times when it is difficult to remember to stay out of the path of jealousy.  Looking at those around us thinking, “If only that were me or if only I had that opportunity.”

I quickly move to prayer and center my mind on my intended path, knowing that if I stay the course my path will be far better than I could have imagined.  Each time I move in my intended direction my inner peace strengthens.  It is that inner peace that helps me understand how important it is that I walk my path. 

If I begin to think about what could be or what others have, stress starts to overcome my ability to function.  I begin to feel jealous and my inner peace is driven away.  

Living in the moment and being grateful for all that I experience has allowed me to see the joy through the storms.  I am thankful for the good in my life and I understand that the challenges are an important part of my journey.

Despite having experienced many setbacks, I choose not to dwell on them or wonder, “Why me?”  I live in the moment and move through the obstacles.  Learning to appreciate what others have and be thankful for all that I have been provided.   

Not allowing myself to be jealous requires me to be content and happy with what I have versus what I want.  I am so far removed from what I want that it is often difficult to answer personal questions or make a decision based on my likes and dislikes.  

When asked about my favorite food, I have no answer.  It doesn’t matter what food I consume, but I do like food to be prepared simply.  I have no preference between eating a fresh peanut butter and jelly sandwich and a beautifully grilled meal.  

The same is true with my possessions.  Having nice things and family treasures is wonderful, but it doesn’t drive me crazy to not have things.  I love to see and be around nice things, but I am not jealous when the things are not mine.  

Living in the moment, being satisfied with what you have, and not being jealous of the things others possess are important ingredients in living a life of peace and love.

It is a choice to be jealous or not.   

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