With the excitement of the holiday season, I like to plan for success. That doesn’t mean that the plan has to be perfect or that everything will run smoothly. What it does mean is that I have a plan that can be adapted, moment to moment, depending on how the day is going. I like my plan to be a simple one-word outline. When things get a bit out of control, I can look at the plan and make changes as needed. If things are going smoothly, I may not ever look at the plan and simply let…
Clean-up was a chore as a child, but as an adult, it sets us up for success. In December I find myself reflecting on the events of the past year with the hope of preparing for a successful start to the new year. As I start my “clean-up” or review, I like to think about what went well, what could have gone better, and what never made it to the starting line. I think about my values and ask myself if my actions support my values. Are my actions representing who I am or am I sending mixed…
My late husband taught me to slow down and enjoy life. It is something I am truly grateful for because it allows me to appreciate all the small things that bring joy to one’s life. Before I met my husband I didn’t take the time to enjoy the journey. I simply was driven to successfully complete the task at hand. Completing the task gave me a sense of accomplishment, but I missed all that life offered around me. I never knew or worried about what I was missing. I had a goal and normally figured out the most…
This week I was reminded of the beauty that comes from a loving union. One of my favorite couples shared an anniversary this week. The social media posts made me smile and gave me an opportunity to be reminded of all the joy they share. This couple radiates love and kindness in everything they do, but particularly in their marriage. It is almost as if there’s a selflessness about their acts of kindness. The acts of kindness are to each other, but somehow that magic radiates to all those around them. They are an example of how good union…