I’ve grown to realize that one of our shortcomings as humans is knowing how we are heard by others, whether we choose to be nasty or nice.  We speak, and our emotions flow without reservation.  Sometimes, without regard to how it is received by others, and without regard to how hurtful it might sound. I remember being surprised by someone who had no idea they were speaking to me harshly.  Out of respect, I kept quiet.  However, it is a lesson that stayed with me.  I will never forget the tone that I heard or how it made that…