It is not uncommon to spend time, money, and energy on having the right things.  The dinner needs to be right, the house needs to look a certain way, and the yard must look manicured.  If we are going out with people, we need to choose the right location and restaurant.  When going out socially, the desire is strong to have the right outfit by the right designer.  All of this often comes with a great deal of stress, worry, and expense. I like my house to look nice, serve a delicious meal, and look my best.  But for me…