Two things come to my mind when I think about the difficult things I have experienced in my lifetime.  One was the most difficult thing I had to do in my life.  The other is something that happens throughout my life, on different occasions and in different aspects of my daily life.  It can be avoided, but it often catches me off guard.  That’s the one I want to write about today.  It doesn’t matter what age you are, your social status, or your employment; it can happen to any of us. It’s a time when we…